On any care forum you find stories of clients who literally drive their carers crazy, whether this is because of unruly and embarrassing behaviour or more seriously due to personality changes, temper tantrums or hallucinations.
Sometimes a client may simply have always acted this way, although behavioural changes can be brought on because of conditions such as progressive dementia, urinary tract infections and depression.
Whatever the reason, there may come a time when you feel that you have had enough, the placement is just not right for you, and you want to be removed as soon as possible.
Is it possible to walk away politely?
Yes, it is, and being polite should be your first plan. If you feel that your placement is not working out, you need to speak to either the agency that you use, or the family. Sometimes you may find that family intervention helps calm the situation and your client’s behaviour changes.
Unfortunately, this does not work for every person but speaking to family should be a priority.
If you work for an agency you should discuss the situation with your support group. They may recommend a different approach. If this does not work or you are still determined to leave then you need to tell them of your plan.
Write it down
Keep notes of your client’s behaviour issues because you will forget some things when you talk to either family or agency. Having notes in front of you also gives you more confidence when you talk to them.
Don’t simply pack up and go
This is never a good idea as you are leaving a vulnerable person unattended. Additionally, the agency may refuse to find you further work as this is not an acceptable thing to do.
Set a deadline
Give the agency a date that you prefer to leave on, give them time to find a replacement carer. They may even be able to replace you sooner if you do things in a polite way. Shouting at them will not do you any good, in fact, it may be a reason to not find you any other work.
Final thoughts
Once you have decided to leave and another carer found, tell your client that you are leaving. At this point there is no reason to share every bad thing that he or she has done because they may not even remember anything.
Simply say that you are leaving for personal reasons and another carer arriving shortly. Remember to be polite and civil, no harsh words are needed as alternative plans have already been set up.
At this point there is no need for lengthy discussions as to why the placement did not work out, simply say your goodbyes, and walk away.
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